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2006/8/30

If I had a million dollars ...

I think we all know the ending to that song ..."I'd be rich!".  Not by today's standards.  Think about it, $1,000,000.00 has a lot of zeros but it's not going to get you far unless you invest it wisely.  With that being said, how many of you out there would invest it?  It's very common for those people who have won the lottery to go bankrupt.  The mindset there: I'll quit my job, buy a big house, buy a car or two and everything else I ever wanted.  Well, that's great until the time comes to pay taxes on the house and insurance premiums on the cars. 
 
What's my point?  I don't know that I have one.  LOL  I've just been listening to the BNL cd and it got me to thinking "if I had a million dollars".  So what would I do?  I would keep my job (I actually like it), I would pay off my house, pay off my car and any remaining debt, then invest the rest.  Of course I would buy something for my family members and donate some to the homeless shelter but I can't think of anything that I really want. 
 
What would you do?
2006/8/27

Happy Sunday ...or not

Sigh ...
 
Here it is, 8:47AM on Sunday morning.  I awoke to the sound of my alarm clock ...that's right, my alarm clock on a Sunday morning.  That should sum it all up right there!  I'm into a new session at school and one of my classes is on Sunday morning from 7:00-9:00 EST.  Sure I should probably be up anyway but my rule is 'if the kids are still sleeping then so am I'.  I get up early enough during the week and I go to bed late so it's justified.  Anyhoo ...notice the time stamp here ...still in the 8:00 hour.  My class never happened this morning   Not only did it not happen but it wasn't until I waited for over an hour that the instructor finally posted a notice that class wouldn't be held.  OK, it's due to technical difficulties and all but still ...I set my alarm on a Sunday morning. 
 
On a positive note, I can get a head start on laundry and clipping coupons.
 
Happy Sunday everyone!!
2006/8/25

One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest

John Mark Karr ...let's review:
 
His own mother (although insane) thought he was possessed by demons and attempted to set fire to him at age 2. 
When he was 19 he married a 13 year old girl.  There are alligations that he was controlling and abusive.  That marriage was annulled the next year.
A few years later he marries a 16 year old girl, she was pregnant at the time.  She was carrying twin girls who died during a home birth.  They later had 3 children.  John and his wife divorced in 2001 after his arrest for 5 misdemeanor charges
of possession of child pornography.
Now he has confessed to the murder of JonBenet Ramsey, claiming that he loves her and that her murder was an accident.
 
Some quotes from John Mark Karr:
 
"I loved JonBenet, and she died accidentally"
“I will tell you that I can understand people like Michael Jackson and feel sympathy when he suffers as he has"
"There are so many ways to have sex"
 
Oh and someone might want to have the head of his temporary attorney, Jamie Harmon, examined as she said of John Mark Karr:
"There is nothing crazy about this man"
"What I found was an incredibly bright, intelligent, well-spoken, thoughtful human being"
 
 
2006/8/24

Now playing ...

As I was searching through my music to find something to listen to while at work, this was the first song that came on.  It reminded me of Marc, this one's for you buddy.  Thank you for the good times we had, for all your blog comments and emails.
 
Thank You
Dido
 
My tea's gone cold, I'm wondering why
I got out of bed at all
The morning rain clouds up my window
and I can't see at all
And even if I could it'd all be grey,
but your picture on my wall
It reminds me that it's not so bad,
it's not so bad

I drank too much last night, got bills to pay,
my head just feels in pain
I missed the bus and there'll be hell today,
I'm late for work again
And even if I'm there, they'll all imply
that I might not last the day
And then you call me and it's not so bad,
it's not so bad and

I want to thank you
for giving me the best day of my life
Oh just to be with you
is having the best day of my life

Push the door, I'm home at last
and I'm soaking through and through
Then you hand me a towel
and all I see is you
And even if my house falls down,
I wouldn't have a clue
Because you're near me and

I want to thank you
for giving me the best day of my life
Oh just to be with you
is having the best day of my life

Unprovoked Attack Against Homeless

Unprovoked Attacks Against Homeless on Rise in U.S.

Thursday , August 24, 2006

Associated Press

NASHVILLE, Tenn. — Tara Cole, who had been living on the streets of Nashville for more than three years, spent her last night alive sleeping on a boat ramp along the Cumberland River.

She was killed in the early hours of Aug. 11, when two unknown males pushed her into the river, according to witnesses. Other homeless people couldn't save her.

"She was one person, but it terrorized the whole homeless population," said Howard Allen, a homeless man who has helped organize a nightly vigil for Cole.

Authorities said the fatal attack was unprovoked, and homeless advocates say such violence is on the rise across the nation. Often the attackers are teenagers or young adults who are more affluent than their victims, experts say.

A 2005 report by the National Coalition for the Homeless showed 86 violent attacks on homeless people in 2005 compared with 60 in 1999. Those numbers are likely low because they only reflect attacks that have been documented in public records, said Michael Stoops, executive director of the Washington-based coalition.

Stoops said that in the 1980s attacks appeared to plague only big cities on the East Coast and West Coast. Now, the coalition has documented incidents in 165 cities nationwide, 42 states and Puerto Rico.

"I think they do it for thrills. I think they think they can get away with it, that the homeless won't fight back, that no one will care, that the police won't pay any attention to them," Stoops said.

In Fort Lauderdale, Fla., a teenager beat a homeless man to death and pelted his body with paintballs in January. Another homeless man was beat to death in March in Orlando, Fla., and five juveniles have been arrested in the case.

In February, the National Coalition for the Homeless asked the U.S. Government Accountability Office to conduct a study of violence against the homeless, though the GAO has not responded, Stoops said.

The increase in violence may be loosely linked to the increasing popularity of so-called "Bumfights" videos and imitation videos which show homeless people fighting one another and performing dangerous stunts, he said.

Four producers of the "Bumfights" videos pleaded guilty in June 2003 to charges of conspiracy to stage an illegal fight for their videos.

And a 20-year-old man in Los Angeles has been convicted for beating two homeless men with a baseball bat in August 2005 after watching a "Bumfights" video.

Internet site Bumfights.com, which sells the videos, says their purpose is to call attention to poverty and violence. "Please do not miss the point of these videos! Educate yourself. Help those who are less fortunate. Spread love not hate," the Web site says.

Not all heed the warning. The Web site includes one viewer commenting, "Let the idiots kill each other for my amusement."

No one responded to an Associated Press e-mail to Bumfights.com seeking comment for this story.

In cases where the perpetrator of attacks on homeless people is known, 76 percent are people 25 or younger, Stoops said. About 80 percent of attackers are white, he said.

"This might give an immature or drunk or high young adult encouragement to attack homeless people," Stoops said. "Were they to do this to any other minority group, there would be a national outcry."

In Nashville, Police Commander Andy Garrett said there was no reason for panic, pointing out that violence among homeless people in his city is more common than random violence against them.

"Have we had a person hit a homeless person before? Yes. Does there appear to be a pattern? No, thankfully," he said.

Tara Cole's mother, Pearl, said she believes her daughter — a bright, free spirit who loved music and wanted to record in Nashville and who was so fond of animals she wouldn't kill spiders — didn't die in vain.

"Everyone who met her knew that something was different about her," she said. "She did have an impact on those around her. I know something good will come of this."

2006/8/22

Til we meet again

I do not like the word goodbye, it seems so final, so instead I say til we meet again. 
 
Marc from Voyeur Nation has passed away.  He was one of my closest blog buddies and was often an inspiration for my writing.  Marc opened the eyes of many readers, into a world that most of us are not familiar.  He used his blog as his journal and wrote about many awful things that had happened to him.  Rather than letting life get him down he fought back and overcame peoples ignorance.  He had a big smile as big as his heart and made everyone laugh during our Wednesday night chats.  He will be missed but will never be forgotten. 
 
 I know our paths will cross again so I will not say goodbye.  Until we meet again Marc ...happy thoughts going your way.
 
 
2006/8/20

CSNY

Last night we went to the CSNY (Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young) concert at SPAC.  I am not a fan of CSNY and didn't think that I knew any of the songs until they were being played.  So why go you ask ...my other half likes them so I got him tickets for his birthday.  The funny thing is that his political view have changed over the years and when I got the tickets they read "Freedom of Speech '06".  Doesn't the title just speak for itself.  I new then that this concert was going to be loaded with anti-war messages and Bush bashing so I wondered if I should tell him before we went or wait til he figured it out on his own.  Of course I had to say something, it was too good not to.  Now you all know that I'm not a fan of our current president and I consider myself and independent.  Personally, I think I lean more to the left but others will argue that.  There were table set up for "Women against War" (I could have gotten a sign for my front lawn but didn't want to get political in my hood).  Other similar tables were set up, mostly anti-war. 
The concert was a mix that ranged from 50 somethings to 30 somethings with a smaller group of teen to 20 year olds.  As I sat there watching these people in their 50's relive their youth I wondered how many of them have changed their political views.  It happens, most young people are liberal and then turn conservative as they get older.  So there I sat, doing what I do best at these events, people watching.  Allow me to describe SPAC for those of you who have never been.  It's located in the Saratoga Spa State Park, it has an amphitheatre which holds 5,000 and then a vast lawn area that holds 30,000.  We usually get lawn seats A. because their cheaper and B. it's just nice to sit out on the lawn and take it all in.  They have huge screens so no matter where you sit you can see.  We got there early to get a good spot on the lawn where we could see the stage and the screens.  As time went on people filled in any available space around us.  We weren't as prepared as we usually are because we didn't bring a blanket or tarp to place under our chairs to ensure a buffer zone but it was a tame croud so it was OK.  Along comes this group of 50 somethings and place their chairs one by one in front of us.  They were yuppie-ish and I'm sure grew up to this music.  I thought to myself 'this is going to be fun to watch'.  Sure enough once the music started the group in front of us began to sing and dance their hearts out.  They didn't miss a beat and were all into it.  Alcohol is allowed on the lawn so as you can imagine they were primed.  At what age do people lose the filter that says 'don't do that in public'?  Oh well ...for me it was all part of the admission. 
Aside from watching the former hippies gone yuppie the music was pretty good.  They really did well for a group of old men, better than some younger ones that I've seen.  They played for 3 hours with just a brief intermission half way through.  They sang their hits along with some of their new stuff (their individual new stuff).  There were some anti-war statements made, a video or two played to their music including U.S. death tolls, but the best was towards the end where they played a song that went something along the lines of "let's impeach the president".  Well that was the straw that broke the 50 somethings back (speaking of the group in front of me, there were far more in agreement with the band than not) ...they all stood silent.  I giggled to myself.  These people probably were all anti-everything growing up, they had to know this band is and was always had it's own political agenda.  Lighten up people ...it's a concert.  Oh these conservatives ...they crack me up. 
And that is why it's called "Freedom of Speech".

Rob's Gripe of the day ...

"My gripe of the day is that you haven't blogged in a week.  :p"
 
OK, OK ...I'm sorry.  I'm doing something about that now
2006/8/13

Gripe of the day

I know it seems to early in the day to have a grip but ...
 
MSN!!!  They mean well, they really do.  I truely appreciate most of the new features offered on spaces.  There's just one problem.  I can't move around my space (or anyone elses) for about a week after changes are made.  Why is that?  MSN, have you considered making quarterly releases to roll out new features and giving users advanced notice?  I think it's a great idea.  This way you can make a lot of changes at once (in a day or less please) and we wouldn't have to wonder what the hell is going on. 
 
Oh, one more thing.  MSN, can you please add spell check to spaces?  I mentioned this the last time changes took place but I don't think the powers that be read my space
2006/8/11

Headline of the week

 
A son, a murderer
Jury finds Porco guilty in about 6 hours

By BRENDAN J. LYONS, Senior writer

First published: Friday, August 11, 2006

GOSHEN -- The swift verdicts resonated softly through the small courtroom. Christopher Porco was standing, dressed in his suit and facing the jury forewoman as she looked down at the paper clutched in her hand.

"Guilty," she said, of the murder of Peter Porco.

"Guilty," she repeated, for the attempted murder of Joan Porco.

It was over.

Christopher Porco, as he has done since the Nov. 15, 2004, ax attack of his parents, showed no outward emotion. But his neck and face flushed sharply as he turned to his attorneys and thanked them.

Seated in the front row behind him, two young women, both his supporters, hugged and cried. A court officer slid behind Porco, motioning him to put his wrists back, and the women's sobs grew louder as the clicks of the tightening handcuffs echoed across the nearly silent courtroom.

Peter Porco's sister, Patty Szostak, who sat quietly through every moment of the seven-week trial, embraced her husband and Julia Cannizzaro, who was Peter Porco's former colleague. Szostak cried softly in their arms as her hands trembled.

Moments before the verdicts were read, Bethlehem's lead detective in the case, Christopher W. Bowdish, had reached across a courtroom bench and put his hand on Szostak's. She appeared to be near tears and, like most of those in the courtroom, unsettled and stunned by the jury's quick decision.

"It's all right," Bowdish said softly. "It's all right." The Orange County jury of eight women and four men took less than six hours to reach their verdicts. They emerged stone-faced from their deliberations, refusing to look at Porco as they filed silently into the courtroom just before 4:30 p.m. Thursday.

Defense attorneys Terence L. Kindlon and Laurie Shanks had raced back to the courtroom, along with Porco, when for the third time that afternoon the jury had handed a note to the judge. Twice earlier they had asked for some evidence, photographs of the murder scene and records showing the activity logs on Peter and Joan Porco's alarm at their Brockley Drive home.

Only this time there was no call for more evidence, and the jury reached its decision without looking further at the trial's more than 4,000 pages of transcripts and nearly 700 pieces of evidence.

"I was surprised," Chief Assistant District Attorney Michael P. McDermott said. "I think it's the timeline. ... That put it over the top for the jury."

One of the jurors, Heather Martin, who is a middle school history teacher, said the jury placed much of its decision on that timeline, adding that the way it was presented was most convincing.

Martin had taken copious notes throughout the trial -- 140 pages -- and she said the jury cross-referenced her notes against the evidence, keeping the timeline in mind.

"There were several who were undecided, but we took our time to go through all the points," she said, adding that it also was pivotal to the panel that no eyewitnesses could testify they saw Christopher Porco sleeping in a dormitory lounge.

The jury largely dismissed the testimony of Joan Porco, who was on the stand for more than a day defending her son and characterizing their relationship as loving. Martin said jurors felt that Joan Porco's recollections were clouded by her devastating injuries, including brain damage, which jurors concluded she had suffered at the hands of her younger son.

Kindlon said the case will not end without more of a fight. "We do expect to take full advantage of the appellate process," he said outside court.

Assistant District Attorney David M. Rossi, who was devoted solely to the Porco case since shortly after the murder, said he was not surprised by Porco's lack of remorse and emotion upon hearing the verdict.

"He didn't blink," Rossi said. "I think that speaks to what's going on in that kid's head. I think he's totally consumed with himself."

Bowdish said he felt great relief after being attacked personally and repeatedly by Porco's defense attorneys, who had cast him in court as a bumbling and inexperienced cop.

"I think this verdict has told everyone that it was just words," he said. "There was a lot of things that were said that were totally unnecessary."

This weekend, Bowdish said he intends to visit the graves of his former colleagues, Sgt. John Cox and Detective Anthony Arduini, who both died during the investigation but had been integral to the case. Bowdish said the men are buried in the same Bethlehem cemetery only steps apart, and that he will go there and "tell them" about the verdict.

The investigation had consumed the 44-member department, which has dealt with only three homicides in the 25 years that Bowdish has been on the force.

"Believe me, I feel vindicated, I really do," Bowdish said.

At 7:10 p.m. Thursday, Porco shuffled out a steel door of the Orange County Courthouse. He was shackled and had changed into a yellow jumpsuit provided by two Albany County sheriff's deputies who came to retrieve their prisoner. He arrived back at Albany County jail at 9:15 p.m. and was booked into the facility.

As the sun set back in Orange County, Porco's yellow Jeep Wrangler remained parked in the empty courthouse parking lot. The vehicle had played a pivotal role in the case: It was identified by witnesses, and shown on surveillance tapes when he drove it to Delmar from Rochester to attack his parents.

Judge Jeffrey G. Berry scheduled Porco's sentencing for Oct. 25. He faces 50 years to life in prison.

Joan Porco, 55, who has defended her son and accused police of railroading him, was not in the courthouse when the verdicts were read. Porco's attorneys said they had not expected a verdict so quickly and that she was at a nearby motel resting.

Her husband, Peter, was 52 at the time of his death.

Szostak's relationship with her brother, who had been a law clerk for an appellate judge, had grown more soulful in the years before his murder. She said the verdict had left her with "very mixed feelings" but that she hopes her entire family can begin healing.

"I had to trust the process, which is what my brother would have wanted," she said.

Staff writer Rick Karlin contributed to this report.

 

2006/8/10

Gripe of the Day

Toilet paper.  I think everyone can relate to this one.  Why do they make it so difficult to start a roll?  It's bad enough when you're home and trying to get a roll started.  You have to pick at it, scratch it and if you're lucky it frees itself up.  If not you're half way through the roll before you have a full square.  Oh and sometimes you pick away and think you have it started but it's only the top layer of a two ply or you get half of it then start chasing the other half round and round.  But how about when you're out in public or even at work trying to start a new roll.  You have to spin it for a while to see where the roll starts and then start the above mentioned process.  By then I usually think the person in the next stall is wondering how much paper does that person need.  They don't know I'm starting a new roll.  For all they know I just exploded or something.  I propose to the toilet paper companies of the world to somehow fold the beginning square to a point, like they do in hotels, and then we wouldn't have these problems.
2006/8/9

Patience ...

If you know me then you know I have very little patience ...for anything. 
 
This evening I went to Walmart.  Need I say more?  Nothing like a trip to Walmart to get you going.  Where to start?  It seems that the best of the best shop at Walmart.  We're all there to shop but why do some people have to block the isles with their carts and stroll along like their taking a walk in the park.  Don't these people have anywhere else to be?  I mean, I'm on a tight schedule ...chop, chop people!  They need a passing lane.  If they would only get rid of the crap they line up in the center of the  aisle I would be good to go.  And they see that you want to get by but they don't move.  God forbid I inconvenience them by doing my shopping around their fat @sses.  Then there's the check out where the lines are always long and the employees always few.  Tonight I was just going home, no urgency there, but what about the lunch hour shopper.  I've been in that position quite a few times.  They need an express line for those who actually work during the day and need to get things done at lunch time.  Nothing worse than trying to get something done in a short amount of time and get back to work in 30 minutes.  Oh it can't be done.  And why are all these people out anyway ...don't they work?  I know I'm on my lunch break but what about the rest of the shoppers?  What I see is stay at home moms with kids in tow, usually yelling at their kids to behave.  And then there's the seniors, talk about moving slow.  I love old people, don't get me wrong, but they need to stay home between the hours of 11:00am and 1:00pm.  You see, with the elderly you can't be rude, it's not right, so instead you find yourself losing your patience.  Laws need to be in place for the working gal (or guy) to get through life uninterrupted.  I pay my taxes!!!  All I want is to get in and out of a store without getting annoyed!!!  Did I mention how they also like to have conversations mid aisle too.  How rude! 
 
OK, I guess I've gone on enough.  But wait ...there's more ...
 
I have a new feature that I am adding.  As I am writing this I am also in my chat group and my good friend Marc of Voyeur Nation gave me a great idea.  This is item #1 of my new feature "Gripe of the Day".  I have so many why not start a running tab?

I'm not 34

Ummmmm ...yeah ...
 
MSN used to calculate your age in your profile for you.  That was before all these wonderful changes.  Not that I mind but if you leave it up to me, I'll be 34 for the rest of my life  
 
Happy Birthday to me (yesterday) and look ...I'm 34 again.  I think I'll leave it that way for a while ...see if it changes.  Soon enough it will annoy the crap out of me and I'll change it but for now 34 it is!
2006/8/8

New song playing ...

I actually dragged my sorry butt out at lunch time and bought 2 CD's (Barenaked Ladies and HIM). 
As many of you might know my favorite song is Wicked Game by Chris Isaak well don't you know HIM (His Infernal Majesty) has their own version and I like that too.  It's the same but different.
 
Wicked Game
Chris Isaak
Performed by HIM
 
The world was on fire, no one could save me but you
It's strange what desire will make foolish people do
And I'd never dreamed that I'd meet somebody like you
And I'd never dreamed that I'd need somebody like you

No I wanna fall in love
this world is only gonna break your heart
And i wanna fall in love
this world is only gonna break your heart
..with you

What a wicked game to play
To make me feel this way
What a wicked thing to do
To let me dream of you
What a wicked thing to say
You never felt this way
What a wicked thing you do
To make me dream of you

And i wanna fall in love
this world is only gonna break your heart
And i wanna fall in love
this world is only gonna break your heart
..with you

The world was on fire, no one could save me but you
It's strange what desire will make foolish people do
No and I never dreamed that I'd love somebody like you
And i never dreamed that I lose somebody like you, no

And I wanna fall in love
This world is only gonna break your heart
And i wanna fall in love
This world is only gonna break your heart
..with you

Nobody loves no one
 
2006/8/7

Now Playing ...

More Than This
10,000 Manaics
 
I could feel at the time
There was no way of knowing
Fallen leaves in the night
Who can say where they're blowing
As free as the wind
And hopefully learning
Why the sea on the tide
Has no way of turning

More than this - there is nothing
More than this - tell me one thing
More than this - there is nothing

It was fun for a while
There was no way of knowing
Like dream in the night
Who can say where we're going
No care in the world
Maybe I'm learning
Why the sea on the tide
Has no way of turning

More than this - you know there's nothing
More than this - tell me one thing
More than this - you know there's nothing

More than this - you know there's nothing
More than this - tell me one thing
More than this - there's nothing

ooh ooh ooh ooh ooh ooh ooh ooh

Gas prices on the rise?

As if things weren't bad enough ...
 
New worry for drivers: BP shuts oilfield
Damaged pipeline in Alaska affects about 8% of U.S. oil production.
August 7 2006: 8:13 AM EDT

NEW YORK (CNNMoney.com) -- In a blow to drivers already struggling with high gasoline prices, BP was forced to shut off about 8 percent of the nation's oil supply after discovering "unexpectedly severe corrosion" in the Alaskan pipeline.

BP announced early Monday that the pipeline problems had caused it to begin the first shutdown ever in the biggest oilfield in the United States, Alaska's Prudhoe Bay.

Here in upstate NY gas prices are around $3.05/gal for regular unleaded.  That's what I paid yesterday.  I will check gas prices at lunch time and report back.  My guess is that there will be an increase of at least .05 cents.

Update:

Indeed the price has increased to $3.09 (and 9/10).  Any guesses on tomorrows price?

2006/8/6

It's official ...

I'm old!
 
OK, I'm not that old but today while shopping I did something that would have never happened in my younger years.  I didn't even realize that I did it.  It was a typical Sunday.  There I was shopping at the local Big K, putting things in my cart, buying crap I didn't really need.  I get to the check out and pay.  As I'm walking away I notice that I didn't have my keys.  I've lost my keys!!!  Sierra asked if I locked them in the car and I said no.  I remembered having them in my hand.  Think Kim ...think.  It took a few minutes but then I thought of one place where I might have set them down, so I sent Sierra to see if they were there.  She didn't mind going since she finally got a pair of those Heely sneakers.  Sure enough they were there.  PHEW! 
 
It's time to take action ...Geritol, One-a-Day, Centrum ...something has to help.  And yes, I did remember where I parked the car
2006/8/4

Goodbye Catskill Game Farm

Catskill Game Farm closing down
Updated: 8/4/2006 9:54 AM
By: Web Staff

 

The Catskill Game Farm has been in business since 1933. But at the end of this season, it will be closing for good.

The park had been a popular family-owned business and was very prosperous during the 60s and 70s. There are 2,000 animals at the park, including zebras, giraffes, deer and reptiles. Many parents have been bringing their kids there for years.

But the Catskill Game Farm's owner said the past few seasons have been tough because of low attendance, bad weather and high insurance costs.

"Years back we had half a million people back in the 60s, and there's been a downward trend through the years, and I just found that I would rather stop now, rather than later," said Kathie Schulz.

The Catskill Game Farm's last day will be October 9. The animals and the equipment will be auctioned off in late October.